Love begets love, let's discuss!!!!

The world is rotating smoothly because of the friendly hearts in the world. It crosses boundaries and shares a mutual bonding of love. Friendships are the gifts to the man kind. The relation which we get in this world is blood related, but the only relationship which does not relate to blood is friendship and love. Where there is friendship, there is no place for sorrow. There is a saying that, “love begets love”. Friendships and love will take care of this entire world from problems. Friendships are the channels of love, affection and trust. It never expects anything in return, less than love. True lovers are the gifts of GOD. In healthy friendships, the sharing is reciprocated, and life long bonds can be formed that may eventually mature into love. It could be a romantic love, or the type of love you feel for someone who has carried you when you couldn't hold yourself up, or the type of love you feel for someone who is struggling and your heart aches and longs to help, but the only thing you have to give is the energy of your love. Friends can help us through difficult times when our world is falling apart and hold us while we cry.


Every human beings heart is filled with love and affection, kindness and sympathy. All these things are collectively called friendship and brotherhood. Friendship is so important that it is needed at every walk of life in the world. It is said that contribution of friendship is always behind any masterpiece. It is also the fundamental unit of a union. That is to say there is an immense glory and importance of a sincere friend and patron. In the real sense we can imagine the importance of a real and cordial friend when we miss him badly and unfortunately. Those who have lost their friends may be the best judges to clarify the need and importance of a friend. A true friend is an invaluable asset in the world. It is like a gem which is very rare in nature and hard to find. It is only some lucky persons who have got real and sincere friends in today’s world. A real friend always shares the joys and sorrows of a friend. It is rightly said that, “a friend in need is a friend indeed”. Love, in human terms, creates a feeling of oneness. A feeling that you are complete with a person, where before something was missing. Love creates a feeling of generosity and altruism, where we want to leave a positive mark on the world when we leave it. Love is probably the most complex word in the human vocabulary. Where you come from, what your belief structure is, and how you experienced being nurtured as a child all help us to define what love means to us. Basically, love and friendship seem to co-exist all the time. However when you examine it closely, love really is the glue that binds everything together, including friendship.



Despite of all these facts if we analyze the whole scenario of today’s materialistic world the word love and friendship has changed into the concept of selfishness, greed and fake honor that is almost every person in the world wants to grind his own axe by dint of his friendship. Friendship is misused to meet ones own selfish ends and there is no longer any sincerity and honesty found in the friendship of today. If you have good status, wealth and profile you will never face shortage of friends, everybody will revolve round you and you work as a pivot. The time of true lovers and friends has gone now and what remained here is only the name of LOVE and FRIENDSHIP. Days are gone when LAILA-MAJNOO and SHEIREEN-FARHAAD like true friends and lovers would die for each other. Now anybody who has a kind heart and wants to take on the ways of love has to do as per this saying.
“If you want to be a pilgrim on the road of love, the first condition is that you make yourself as dust and ASHES.”


Hey! Is there anybody who wants to be dust??????? The answer would be always in negative; because the destination is very much terrible and horrifying and almost every one of us would always like to change track instead of the road of love. No doubt some people have affection, love and kind feelings towards such persons, whom they consider the best, but there are also hindrances in their ways, the worldly family prestige and honor doesn’t allow them to be a traveler, ultimately they cannot achieve or love a thing without wanting to fight for it. The concept of friendships and love has all at once changed and it has become a fashionable trend. Today those people are considered the best that have good name and fame in the world. There is no place for goodness and character which are the fundamentals of humanity and mostly all the relations are missing this main factor; they look for the wealth, name and beauty. But those people who are real in nature don’t care for these short lived things. Because to them “beauty strikes the eyes but goodness moves the heart”. But still, over the years you start forming relationships with a lot of people starting with family and then friends. The friendship that you form begin at very young age and at all ages you keep on accumulating friends but as you grow older you also start to lose friends, some simply because of lack of time, some over little issues and some friendships by the nature they are formed are transitory in nature and some are higher in every aspect of the race of life than you, so ultimately you have to say Good-bye to these relationships forever.

Gone are the days of affection it has remained in books only because it was a belief and faith, today is the age of science and practical world everything is acceptable only proved by practical and observations and with changing concept we have also changed our faith (we walk by faith not by sight). Basically in the words of Bertrand Russell, “ we are told the faith could remove mountains but no one believed it, we are now today told that Atom Bomb can remove mountains everyone believes it”. Truly these sayings value nothing today because fools cannot understand intelligent people, what would be the meaning of love for those people who have replaced their belief and faith with science, man made ideas and modernization in our day to day life, so no place has remained now for true people, we can say true emotions have died forever. Relations and wealth are related, the more the wealth, the more the relatives.
Leo Tolstoy a great English scholar has discussed love like this, “love is God, and to die means that, I a particle of love, shall return to the general and eternal source”. To come up with a definition that explains the definition of love and friendship is about as easy as pulling your heart out of your chest and showing someone when you feel it's been broken. Friendship doesn’t require any justification it is only if you love someone by your heart the other must also have such feelings for you. Now all that we see is always reverse of the same. But still true lovers don’t lose their belief of being on right track and this universe is on the way because of these people. As soon as there exists the black clouds of greed, fake family values, selfishness, narrow mindedness and pride, we should not hope for peaceful existence of mankind at any walk of life. The moral and religious education can prove helpful in removing discrimination among the different sections of our society. Still there is a good number of people who treat some sections of the society differently rather than capability. In this modern age of science and technology there still exist the menace of discrimination, pride and greediness? The Islam has criticized this problem greatly like: we all are same human beings, and no one is superior to anybody rather than those who are doing good deeds. Love is that weapon which can turn an enemy into a friend. Let’s Love each other with our hearts so that, the mountains of hatred are melted at local, national and international levels. Let’s not be proud of our name, caste, and fake honor as these are the factors responsible for uncertainty in the whole universe, which God has made for mutual brotherhood, peace, love and certainty.

ISLAM THE FINAL MESSAGE OF THE GOD

from the very begining of this universe Almighty Allah sent various messengers to different nations from time to time , with a message that this universe is in the powers of Allah, and you people should follow the guidlines , principles, and ways of your creator.
we all people here have to follow the commands given by our Allah, so that the peace returns to us......................................
becuase the people whoforget the message if their lord persihed in the world.....
The Quran is the best guide of the humanity....................
Alhamdullilah